Why does it seem that keeping a romantic relationship afloat is so difficult toady? In asking around, you’ll find several  different theories trying to explain this trend. Some say all the technology our generation has engulfed itself in has left us detached. Others say that  the stressors struggling economy and the difficulty of the current job market, affect personal relationships. It doesn’t have to be that complicated. Maintaining a healthy and loving relationship could turn out simpler than you think when following these key guidelines:

1. Respect: Respect is one of the most, if not the most important key to a healthy relationship. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re going to agree with your partner at all times, but it does mean that you trust one another and always have each other’s back.
2. Communication: Don’t be scared to talk to your partner about anything that’s on your mind. Things that get swept under the rug eventually pile up and cause a rift in a relationship. Don’t forget, listening is just as important as speaking up. Just as you should feel comfortable sharing thoughts, feelings, and ideas with your partner, he or she should feel the same about sharing with you. Simply listening to one another will prevent many arguments and strengthen the bond between you.
3. Compromise: This goes along with the respect and communication. There are going to be certain times when you and your partner have opposing views  about situation. At sad times you’ll have to find a way to meet each other half way and find a solution that is fair to both of you. Sometimes this means you’ll have to agree to disagree and leave it at that. But compromise is an important “skill” you both need to learn. The willingness to compromise is an essential ingredient of a healthy relationship.
4. Make time: Living in a fast paced, hectic world, it’s easy to get caught up in everything going on around you and forget to make time for your relationship. Sometimes you need to put all the craziness on pause, put away your phones, tablets, and computers, and just make  time to be with each other. Whether it’s catching a movie or just sitting around and enjoying each other’s company, it doesn’t really matter what you’re doing as long as you’re together. It’s important  to let your partner know how much you enjoy being together.
5. Remember to focus on yourself: While making time for one another is important, it is also important to make time for yourself. Keep in mind that although you are one couple, you are still two separate individuals. Clinging to one another will end up suffocating the relationship and will leave you frustrated. It’s important to set time aside to do things you enjoy, spend time with your friends, and just be your own person.